Day Three of the Capture Your Grief project. A little bit more about who they are. My reason behind this project. The essence of her being.
Who Are They To You?
She was going to be our rainbow honeymoon baby. We’d lost two babies through early miscarriage before her; conceiving her on our wedding blessing night gave us the key to our new married life together. Adding her to the to children I already had. She is my third child, she will always be my third child – now the middle one. My older two were so excited about having a new baby in the house, we all were. Although I’d had the miscarriages, after taking home two children, I had assumed that she would too. We simply never imagined anything other than brining home a rainbow, as that’s what Rainbow babies do; right?
Do They Have A Name?
We didn’t know her gender until the week she was born; so, we often played about with names. Had she been a boy, she was going to either Xavier Or Gabriel Severus. Our original choice for female name was Autumn Amelia. Autumn, because we thought it as a gorgeous name, and Amelia after Amy Pond from Dr Who. Anyway, that year there was a singer on one of the singing shows, and her name was Amelia; we knew it would probably become popular.
I often had boxset marathons due to having Hyperemesis and not being able to go too far from a toilet, many names popped up. Then Christmas 2011 came that all important Dr Who episode, “Hello Sweetie…” Melody Pond was introduced to us. (River Song). We both instantly said how much we loved the name; her middle name comes from NCIS character Caitlyn (Cate).
I remember when she was born, and we were told that she was alive; then asked her name. I felt so proud telling them her name; not knowing whether we would see her again alive.
What Is The Meaning of Their Name?
Melody is a Greek name which means song. I am so pleased we went with a reasonably unique name.