baby loss, grief

Ten Things Aside From Grief

Being “The Baby Loss Mum” it separates you from normal parents, not just physically being seen “she’s the one who lost a child”
But for me being an outsider looking in, “Why aren’t people wanting full term births?” “Why aren’t they taking proper care of themselves?”
You can only raise awareness to those who want to be aware.
Being a bereaved parent you kind of forget who you are.
Should I smile, should I cry?
So, I need to remind people that I am more than the Mum who lost a baby, I am a Mum, wife and friend. Also a student
10 Things About You
1.Where were you born and where do you live?
Well, I live in South Somerset in the UK and I was born in Exeter Devon.
2. What is your favourite food?
This I cannot decide so easily, ask anyone who truly knows me, they will tell you I like revolting combinations, Cauliflower Cheese and Custard!
But officially I would have to say Roast Lunch.
3. What is a strange fact about me?
I have slightly webbed toes!
4. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would it be?
Aside from the obviously family and friends, would either be Hugh Laurie or JK Rowling!
I would love to know how she writes and have a family, where my head turns to mush in no time at all!!
5. What are you reading now?
Bohemian Rhapsody
6. What is your favourite Colour?
Pink! Although I am also drawn to yellow for our spring baby.
7. Your Favourite Book?
Alice In Wonderland, love everything to do with this book.
8.Dream Job?
Writer, I have found a love in writing, something I can get lost in.
9. Most amazing day of your life?
Aside from the children being born, it would be my husband proposing to me, torrential rain, was the most romantic thing I felt so amazing.
10. Favourite Music?
James Bay – Hold Back The River
I Am Still Standing in Memory of Melody Caitlyn

3 thoughts on “Ten Things Aside From Grief

  1. Samantha Peil

    Aw! You did so much better at this than I. 🙂 I can relate to several things you wrote (Rowling and writing especially). Have you read The Looking Glass Wars by Frank Beddor?

  2. julz scott

    Thank you so much for reading, no I shall have a look for it thank you. I was surprised on how I managed the ten things to be honest. So sorry you're in this journey too.

  3. Samantha Peil

    You're welcome! I would be interested to hear your thoughts on the book. It came highly recommended to me, but I didn't connect with it like I had hoped!

    Thank you~ I am so sorry to you as well. I am thankful for the community, but I wish there was no need for it.


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